It’s funny how Instagram sometimes trumps reading blogs these days. I know I am pretty guilty of that – I can follow along with all my “friends” quickly on Instagram, and if for some reason I missed their last 10 posts, I can see them all at once. Mari is one of those bloggers. Wow, she and I probably go back to 2009 or 2010? I have no idea, but it’s a long time. She lives in New York, practices yoga, and loves her niece very much. A few weeks ago she posted on Instragram that a fellow blogger had passed away “but at least she died doing what she loved.” I asked who it was, because we have the same mutual blog friends, and when she told me it was Jen from Daydreams and Shoestrings, my heart sank. I wasn’t a loyal blog reader of hers, but as soon as I went to her blog I immediately recognized it. She was an avid runner, all around outdoorswoman, married to the man of her dreams.
She died while hiking with a friend when the weather started to turn. Her friend was injured but survived. Sadly, she did not. She seemed so full of life! She really loved to travel – here are some of the places she wanted to go. The shoestrings on her shoes took her to a lot of races. She had an ever changing bucket list!
Maybe her death was just another kick in my pants to just focus on living life and not micromanage everything. Her husband wrote on her memorial page: “I think you’re Mom and family have captured the best words that incorporate how you lived your life everyday. “Be bold enough to use your voice, brave enough to listen to your heart, and strong enough to live the life you’ve always imagined.”
“Live the life you’ve always imagined.” Those are some very powerful words. Am I living the life I’ve always imagined? Well, yes and no. I am happy with my family and friends, all the renovations going on with the house, that I have a roof over my head and I can put really good food on our table. But my job is really sucking the life out of me, and I really need to figure out how I can do something that makes me happy. While I would love to get up at 2:00 in the morning and bake bread all night in a kitchen, um, the $9 an hour paycheck can’t really support the life I have now. So I am getting my thinking cap on. I know I will find my way sooner or later.
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Breakfast was more quiche! This time with a sauteed honey crisp apple on the side. I sauteed the apple while I blogged before work yesterday – I cut the apple, put it in a skillet and cover about half way with water and heat over medium heat. Once the water has evaporated – about 5-6 minutes, I add in 1/2 teaspoon butter, pinch of brown sugar and cinnamon, and cook an additional 4-5 minutes. Much like Fuji apples, I love how honey crisp apples hold their shape when cooked.
It was a bit overcast, but I beat the rain and got in a 45 minute walk at lunch. I tried a different path near my office, and I liked that it had a line around the path so that you couldn’t get lost. Turns out it was only about a 15 minute loop, so I ended up doing the loop three times.
I bought a rotisserie chicken at Walmart over the weekend. I found out when they cook their chickens at my local store puts them out at noon and 5:00 p.m. So I went there on Saturday at 12:15 and the chicken was still piping hot and juicy. I picked off nearly two pounds of meat and made chicken soup with the carcass and some of the chicken, used some of the chicken for my tostadas at lunch, and will use the rest later in the week for chicken enchiladas. Not bad for a $7 bird! My tostadas had low fat refried beans, chicken, a bit of leftover cooked white rice, diced red peppers, jalapeno and some shredded Cabot cheese. So delicious and filling – and topped with my tomatillo salsa.
I was getting worried when I got back to work and it started to rain. My new couch has literally been in my driveway in three big boxes for over a week. We haven’t had any rain (and no, I never once thought someone would steal it!) but I didn’t want to risk them getting wet, even though they were not only in boxes but shrink wrapped too. I knew I had some cash on the bulletin board at home, so I texted Jacob and asked him to ask the floor guys if he paid them, would they bring the couch and my bed frame in – the answer was a quick yes! And just in the nick of time too – Jacob said as soon as they brought the last box in, it started to downpour. Whew! Worth every penny as it took three big guys to bring the boxes in – not sure Hannah, Jacob and I could have handled that on our own.
I have new bedroom carpet! So long ugly orange carpet. And it’s got a wonderful padding underneath so it’s super comfy. Although Hannah told me that once they ripped the carpet out, she said I had really pretty hard wood floors underneath – doh! All the same wood, same grain, etc. Oh well, I actually prefer carpet in a bedroom.
So dinner was quick and easy. Chicken noodle soup I made over the weekend with a sandwich on the side. Easy peasy. I do always cook and store my noodles separate from my chicken broth – I don’t like the texture of noodles in soup after it’s been in the fridge more than a day. And it’s easier to freeze the broth without the noodles. The bread I used on my sammie is from The Fresh Market – it’s a quinoa bread that’s really tasty!
So my question for the day to you is this. What are your daydreams and where do you want your shoestrings to take you??
Make it a great day!
I just came across your blog when I was looking up Daydreams and Shoestrings. Jen was actually one of my real life best friends (we met in college and stayed close thereafter). I was thinking about her and wondered if her blog was still active. She was one of my absolute favorite people, and the kindest, generous, funniest person I ever knew. She was actually hiking with her husband that day (not a “friend” per say). I miss her all the time and it is so nice to see a community of people I don’t know show this kind of respect to her. 🙂
Hi – so sad about your friend – I didn’t know her that well online, but a life cut too short for sure. 🙁
That’s really sad about Jen. More reinforcement for me too to start moving towards a career I love. Life really is too short.
I am so excited for the remodeling in your home. I can’t wait to see all of the pics when it’s finally complete.
Thanks Aimee! Me too – I need to find a job where I make the amount of money I make, but doing something I love – which is proving difficult 🙁
Happy Friday!
Sometimes I don’t think we realize what we are doing to ourselves with all the automation. We have taken the human equation out of so many parts of our lives and it has had such a negative effect on the workforce and put so many out of work. You would be so great at anything you choose to do. I would love to see you as a food network chef. It would be great to sit snuggled up with my coffee in the morning and watching you cooking up some Biz special of the day. I guess we need to figure out how to get you an audition for the next star thing.
I love your confidence in me Kym! Hugs!
Love that carpet! I always love the smell of new carpet! Come here and we will open a bakery after I get off of Weight Watchers that I just began! I read your post yesterday and didn’t get to comment, but I think anything in moderation and you seem to do that. Happiness? Right now I’d be content, to just be content! That would be happiness…
OMG, could you imagine if we opened a bakery??!! I’d just have to move closer to you 😀
So why does the job suck the life out of you? For mine, it’s not the work, it’s the company and how they treat their employees.
Bottom line is my line of work is becoming obsolete. Legal secretaries aren’t what they used to be – I loved being busy, doing dictation, doing trial prep work.
When I first started attorneys didn’t even HAVE computers – now they have voice recognition software, we electronic file almost everything, so that doesn’t leave much work for me.
I get antsy just sitting here – last week I think I worked 90 minutes from Monday – Friday. 🙁
Oh that’s so awful. 🙁 It’s always weird to find out a blogger or online friend has passed. You may not have known them in real life but following them online you feel like you know them. 🙁
Lisa, I thought of you because Jen was an avid reader – check out her book reviews here:
http://daydreamsandshoestrings.com/book-report/
I’m sorry you’re frustrated with your job….why doesn’t baking bread pay way more money? 🙂
Your tostadas and soup look beautiful. I’m glad you’ve finally discovered the magic of the rotisserie chicken 🙂
Yep, I am a rotisserie chicken convert!
I could be the Rhoda to your Mary Tyler Moore or vice versa! Let’s toss our hats into the air and take a chance….are you in sister?
Wouldn’t that be fun! 😀
It’s rough when you want a job change so much, but finances are the stopping point. I hope you can find something you want to do, and get paid enough to do it.
Thanks Shelley – I am keeping my options open 😀
I hear you on the job. Mine is unhappy currently, but I am actively working to change that. It will take a while. Unfortunately, you can’t always earn money doing what makes you happy, but the job should at least be something you can tolerate.
Maybe you should do that food truck!
Hope your job gets better – I know how that is up and down for you at times.
I am contemplating working part time on a food truck to see if I even like it!
I feel you 100% about your job. I hope you find something more fulfilling. I just have this gut feeling that you’ll find what you want and need. You have someone watching over you who wants you to be happy.
Thanks Candace – I know I’ll find something more fulfilling – hugs!