I had a plan yesterday. Because it was Hannah’s birthday and we were going out to eat, I wanted to keep my breakfast and lunch on the low point side. Breakfast was 6 points – 3/4 cup steel cut oats (3), Kashi cinnamon squares crumbled on the side (2) and a tablespoon of sugar free pancakes syrup. (1).
While it was still busy at work, because there were blue skies I was determined to get out and walk. I met my sister and her co-worker Jenny and we walked for about 40 minutes before they had to head back to work.
Lunch was pork tacos – 3 ounces of leftover pork chops (3) in two corn tortillas (3) with mango, strawberries and cucumbers on the side.
I was happy that I had 18 points going into dinner.
I already knew what I was going to get – steamed edamame for my appetizer (3) and the bowl of ramen soup which I guestimated to be about 13 points. Perfect!
But that’s not how it went down.
We beat the dinner crowd by getting there at 8:30.
Hannah wanted to eat in the outdoor patio and while they normally wouldn’t serve just one table out there, I pointed it out that it was her birthday, and if she wanted to eat out in the patio, that’s where we were going to eat. In a nice way of course! It was perfect! The music was great, we had heaters above us so it was a bit chilly and warm at the same time.
One of the things on the menu was “hot rock” appetizer and Jacob asked if I wanted to split that. Cooking meat on a hot rock? Um, yes please! It came with this really seasoned salt mix, vinegar cucumbers and this delicious spicy dipping sauce.
And while I am the queen of checking out menus before going anywhere, I don’t know how I missed that they had an “eruption” spicy burger.
I am really picky about my burgers. The meat has to be flavorful and seasoned right, cooked medium rare the way I like it (this was!) and perfect bun to burger ratio. Nothing worse then getting a burger and the bun is too big, or it falls apart when you eat it. I made Jacob take a bite of this and he also agreed it was an amazing burger. Did I mention I got spicy fries with that burger (that we all split).
I love that smile. She was nervous because she wanted to go there for the sushi, but was happy that both Jacob and I loved our food – Jacob even ordered smoked salmon sushi and loved it!
We had such a fun night. It was like we had our own private party for three! Earlier in the day Hannah and Jacob got donuts, and when we got home, I mindlessly ate 1/2 of a chocolate donut. Oh and I had two beers at dinner too – the first time I’ve had alcohol in over a month. So while I had 18 points going into dinner? I ended up spending 56 points for the day.
Oh, and you’ll notice I am -22 points for my weeklies? That’s because someone got her snacky pants on. On Sunday and Monday night for some reason I just could not.stop.snacking. I used 35 points (all my weeklies!) between Sunday and Monday night. It’s like my old habits are trying to creep back.
I spent a couple hours going through old pictures to post for Hannah’s birthday, and of course saw tons of photos of me and Tony together. I also “announced” that I am 1.2 pounds away from losing 20 pounds, and it’s almost as if I am subconsciously trying to self-sabatoge myself. Why?
It got me thinking that I am not sure I’ll ever be able to eat “normally” and by that, I mean that I am always going to be aware of what I am putting in my mouth. But I have to figure out why my bingy ways are sneaking back in, because it is most definitely not welcome.
I am going to also purge any temptations from my pantry as well.
But my sister and I have had said that good or bad, we are always going to weigh in, and I plan on weighing in tomorrow, owning it and moving on.
I have my food packed for today, I have a healthy dinner planned, and I also plan on hitting up the gym for a “last chance workout.”
Thanks for all the birthday wishes for Hannah! I know she had a great day, and that makes this Momma very happy.
Make it a great day! Every day is a new beginning 😀
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I’m like you. I don’t know if I will ever eat normally, but I’ve accepted that as a part of life. Happy birthday Hannah!
I’m glad Hannah had a great birthday celebration! Happy belated Birthday to her!
And you’ll get the snacking/extras back under control!!!
Andrea
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Thanks Andrea – I think your oldest son is the same age as Hannah, right?! They were both so little when we started blogging 😛
I love the “own it and move on” attitude!!!! (and I also like the expression “snacky pants”)
You’ve got this Vat! Big hug!
Thanks Roz – and for the record, I donated my snacky pants to Goodwill today 😛
It’s a marathon not a sprint! Even if you’re up a smidge don’t sweat it – you’ll get it back off and then some next week. Glad you had a great night!
Thanks B – you are absolutely right – thanks, and yes, we had such a fun night! #worthit
Sounds like Hannah’s birthday dinner was amazing and I’m glad you all enjoyed everything – that’s what a celebration should be, right? And points, schmoints…ya gotta live life. Today is a new day.
I think that will be my new hashtag Shelley! #pointsschmoints!
Love, love ,love everyone’s comments. Yes, they are right. Some days will be different, but you are holding yourself accountable and are aware of the triggers and still tracked everything. I on the other hand haven’t even brought myself to sign up yet. I can’t seem to take time to track my water intake on my fit bit so I am still putting off the WW sign up. 🙁
I’m not real sure I’m up for cooking meat on a rock. Happy you and Jacob enjoyed it.
I am loving the comments too Kym – it helps me keep my goals in perspective and realize that there will be days that I’ll eat more and it’s okay. I am going to WI tomorrow, and just keep on moving in the right direction – no harm, no foul. I wouldn’t join until you are ready, just know I’ll be here when you are – hugs!
I think for sure you’ll be able to eat “normally” some day. And by that, I mean – eventually your habits will be habits. And that’s how you’ll eat. And if you occasionally go over, it will be no big deal. A snacky day once or twice a month won’t kill you.
(I swear PMS is the reason for my chocolate and chips yesterday!)
But life is busy and stressful and it changes. So I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m going to fully ENJOY the fact that I can eat “normally” right now. I have habits of what I eat and pack and make. The occasional over day doesn’t phase me at all. But ya know, at some point life will get completely crazy, I’ll go overboard, and I’ll have to reign it in. I’m enjoying not having to do that right now, but I know it won’t be this way forever.
That’s an awesome way to look at it Marcia. I just need to realize that there is no “good/bad” to food. That is what I continue to work on. Thanks for your comment – it helped me! 😀
Lord I needed to read this today! Started back at WW 2.5 weeks ago and killed it the 1st week, second was a tad snacky with a .2 gain and then this past weekend happened. I wonder as well if I’ll ever eat “normally” too. Here’s to killing it the rest of this week!
Love following you on Instagram, need to stalk you today and get WW meal ideas! Keep it up, you are very inspiring and REAL!
Thanks Tracey! I am glad to know that someone else owns a pair of snacky pants!!
Here’s to both of us keeping it real! Hugs!
Welcome to real life. Here’s what I see living with someone who has a normal appetite: some days have more food than others, followed by days with less food. I realize WW encourages you to hit exactly so many points every day and I realize they do that to try to help establish better food habits, but the fact is, some days there will just be more food. Normal eating is not perfect, it has ebbs and flows.
Yes, be aware of the snacking because that has been an issue that you’ve freely shared but I think by forcing yourself to recognize it you’ve already begun to get it straightened out.
That totally puts it into perspective for me – it helps “hearing” it from someone else, ya know?!
Oh girl! Here’s the thing – it was a special occasion, you *enjoyed* your food (I hate when I go over and it was food that wasn’t even worth it), you had a great time and you aren’t just quitting. You know that you “overspent” your points; but the point is that since you know, you’ll keep it in check going forward. It’s not a setback because you aren’t going to eat that way every day. You are self-aware. And you are awesome!
Thank you so much for this comment Carrie!! It means so much 😀