The summer before my twin sister and I started our freshman year of high school of high school, there was a list of fall sports that you could try out for. My grandma on my Dad’s side was living with us at the time. She got the list and decided that I should try out for the swim team. I told her I couldn’t swim. She literally called the school, asked for the swim coach and asked “can my granddaughter try out for the swim team if she can’t swim?” Um, the answer to that was no. So I quickly skimmed the list and chose field hockey. I had no idea what it was, but if it got me out of trying out for the swim team in a life jacket, I was all for it.
Turns out that was a good decision. Not only did I become great friends with most of these ladies, I got an athletic scholarship to Southern Illinois to play in college. Sadly, they dropped the hockey program after my freshman year and after that I decided to “take a year off from college” and well, I only ended up going to college my freshman year.
I met up with four of my hockey friends who still live in the area on Saturday morning to watch to Varsity field hockey game. Not gonna lie, but I think we talked more than we watched the game, but it was such a gorgeous day and great to catch up. I threw this idea out to meet up a few weeks ago, and it reminded me that you can’t wait for stuff to happen, you have to make it happen!
My friend Kelly on the far right? Still a total baller athlete – that morning before we met up she ran 16 miles! If I ran 16 miles I’d be laying in bed recovering all day! Jacky is to the right of me, then Cindy, Jennifer and Kelly. Jacky and I then met up another hockey friend for lunch at Fat Duck Tavern. Um, these pictures do not do the food any justice – it was delicious! I ended up getting a Reuben and it was delicious. Megan got the duck fat fries that came with three dipping sauces – one of which was a cilantro aioli that either Jacky and I will try to recreate at home – I could have done shots of that stuff!
It was so good catching up with both of them! I had plans to then go to a softball game that was honoring a couple that was instrumental in starting girls softball in our hometown. I give you Biz and Jenn of 1979!
Jennifer is the third from the left and I am at the far right on the first row. I remember having the hardest time playing softball while wearing those glasses when I got all sweaty! And I also thought that my multi-colored stretch belt was the bomb. But I ended up being able to hang out with my sister last minute, so I never made it to the game. But I did get to see my niece and nephew which I don’t think I’ve seen since December!
I drove home, but my day wasn’t done yet. My friend had a get together at her house – she is the best hostess! She also is an amazing decorator – her porch is so inviting!
Good times, good food and great conversation. So happy that I got to catch up with everyone there.
Sunday morning I dragged Hannah and Jacob back to the OP area and we went to my Mom’s church. I think the only reason Jacob agreed to go was because there was a promise of fried chicken for lunch. He was raised Catholic and this was his first time at a Methodist church. He was shocked at how informal it was! They have a new minister and he’s very engaging, which is nice.
I no longer get physical newspapers anymore, but I subscribe to Chicago Tribune online. I almost always scroll down to the food section – duh.
They always have interesting articles about where the best of whatever is. A few weeks ago they talked about a place that had one of the best fried chicken in Chicago – Leghorn Chicken on Western Avenue. I realized that was only 6 miles from my Mom’s church and quickly talked her into going there for lunch yesterday. I was pretty much sold when they had a basket of chicken skins as a side for $4!
Um, let’s just say that the six mile drive from River Forest through some pretty shady Chicago neighborhoods were interesting. While I was driving I was just looking around at all the diverse people that live in these neighborhoods and I think Jacob was a bit nervous and I was like “this is #adventure2015!” His reply? Well, I hope I live long enough to have #adventure2016!”
The place is small but I loved the eclectic décor. You order at the couter and they bring the food to you. One word about the fried chicken skins. AMAZEBALLS! Super light, not greasy and with the addition of hot bbq sauce it was the bomb.com. And while my chicken sandwich with “nashville hot” seasoning and jalapeno aioli, wasn’t spicy at all. If we venture out there again, I would get Hannah’s chicken tenders. Super light breading and the chicken was so juicy.
Mom had places to be after lunch as did Hannah and Jacob, so we dropped my Mom back off at her car back at church. And here you can see she’s hugging her favorite child.
It was a busy weekend, but I loved it. Every time I have a busy weekend like this I have to remind myself that this time I have is a gift – when Tony was sick I wasn’t able to do 1/10th of the stuff I am able to do now, and I have to make the most of the time I have. Sure, I miss Tony every single day – and actually miss him yelling at the t.v. during football games, but life is for the living. And living life to the fullest is what my goal is to do!
Hope you guys had a great weekend – can you believe later this week is October already! One of the grocery stores I went to already started selling those cinnamon scented pinecones already – too soon!
Make it a great day!
Jacob’s comment really cracked me up. I love that you guys took an adventure to the “dark side”. I think my husband would want fried chicken skins every night if he knew such a thing existed. I love your friends fall decorations. I miss doing that. I use to change out my house with every season. I just had so much “stuff”, a few bins for every holiday/season. One half of our garage was stuff. Sadly , I do miss it especially fall.
The chicken skins were worth it – but have to be a once in a while treat – like once a year!
I don’t have any decorating style at all – except for my snowmen, but that’s really just a collection, not really decorating 😀
What a great weekend you had!
And I totally understand how much you miss Tony but on the other hand I’m happy to see you getting out and do fun things. I am sure he wouldn’t have it any other way for you.
That’s one of the things I keep telling myself – I can hear his voice telling me “go out and have fun!”
Glad you had a wonderful weekend and are getting out there and enjoying life!
Thanks Lori – it’s taken a while for me to get used to the idea, but I know it’s something I need to do 😀
Great pictures – looks like a fun weekend! Glad you are not only getting out there and enjoying life, but dragging others (Jacob!) along for the ride. 🙂
Ha, yep we dragged him, but the prize of fried chicken was enough for him to tag along!
I saw your field hockey post on FB (or was it IG?) – anyway, I LOVE! I so wish I’d have been in OP this weekend so we’d have had the perfect opportunity to meet up. I had to LOL at your post about the west side and Jacob’s reaction. Mark always says, “I get so nervous around those blinking blue lights”…haha. Not the best of neighborhoods, for sure. I remember being in grade school and those mini bean bag babies were in happy meals. My friend and her family were so committed to getting them all that we went to the GHETTOS where they figured people couldn’t afford the upcharge in the happy meal in order to get the harder-to-find beanie babies. So dumb!
I have never heard of chicken skins – what I have yet to learn about food! I immediately think, “ew” but let’s be honest, that’s the best part of fried chicken so I assume, on second though, “YUM!” 😉
OMG, I totally forgot about neighbors on my Mom’s block who did the same thing with those damn beanie babies – they also wrangled me into going to different McDonald’s downtown and then when they started selling them in gift shops looking for “the one” they were missing.
I think I actually threw all of Hannah’s out!
If are are home for the holidays this year you have to give me a heads up so I can crash your parents house and hold your cute baby!
Its so nice to see you have fun!! Sorry, but I’m one who peels off all chicken skin so that does not look good to me. more for you!! Your mom is so cute too.
Ha – I am actually a bit shocked about that Randi! Yep, my Momma is so cute – and going strong at 75!
Oh my!….fried chicken skins. Are you sure they’re legal? Wish we had a place down here in Texas that served them. That may be my new quest.
I so enjoy your posts, and you have inspired me on numerous occasions. I admire how you took such good care of Tony, and how you have struggled but come out on the other side with a sense of peace.
I’m glad you posted a picture of Jacob and Hannah. I had seen Hannah, but never Jacob and imagined him much differently. You have a special family to love and enjoy.
Esther
Esther, thank you so much for this comment – you are so sweet! Um pretty sure chicken skins should be illegal, but they are damn tasty!
Yep, it’s sad that Tony passing is what is letting me live and enjoy my life – I thought we’d have many more years together.
Hugs!
Hey Biz! Happy Monday. I’m now convinced I need to try fried chicken skin. The next time I go to that new chicken ‘n waffles place here in Omaha, I’m going to ask the owner about chicken skin. Looks so YUM!
You have to suggest chicken skin to your chicken and waffle place – I paid $4 for something they probably throw away! And isn’t that the best part of the chicken anyway? 😀
This post made me laugh and smile. I love how you are embracing your life. What a fun reunion!
I have grew up Catholic, but when I was living in Mozambique I had the opportunity to experience other religious services. Methodist was my favorite. The informality and welcome feel of the service really resonated with me. We are raising our son Catholic, but there is a methodist church down the street and I am often tempted to pop in for a service.
I’m glad you had a wonderful weekend. It was a beautiful weekend here and fall was definitely in the air. Have a great Monday!!
Thanks Aimee – yep, I just have to make things happen in my life instead of waiting for things to happen – it was a busy, but fun weekend 😀