When I first got my cousins invitation to her sons high school graduation, the first thing I did was to go on Google maps and see how far away it was. The first route told me it was six hours and 42 minutes from my Mom’s house and knowing that I couldn’t take any additional days off of work, knew that this was going to be a leave early Saturday morning drive and arrive late Sunday night. Only a couple things though – with stops to eat, getting gas, bad weather, and traffic – those just under 7 hour times turned out to be more like 9 hours each way.
Still, totally worth it. It was so great to see all my cousins at the same place so that in and of itself was worth the 18 hour drive in two days! I had to laugh at Hannah though – seems whenever it was her turn to drive, it would start to rain. My Mom and I? We drove through puffy white clouds and blue skies!
We got there just as they were starting to eat dinner so it was perfect time. Their house is right on Lake Huron and absolutely gorgeous – sandy beach (well, not much beach but sandy!) and not very deep at all. You could walk about 200 feet out and it would still only be at your chest.
I was trying to remember when the last time we had all gotten together and it’s probably been 20+ years. Once my Uncle died when I was a freshman in high school and then my Dad died, we just became a “Christmas Card” catch up type of family. My cousin Patti found my blog a couple years ago – I remember mentioning to Tony at the time that someone had read 300 of my posts in one day and turns out it was her! I definitely need to make a better effort of staying in touch, and with social media, there is no excuse not to.
We sat outside on the deck talking until about 11:00 that night – it was so nice catching up and the moon rise was incredible – my iPhone doesn’t do it any justice at all.
We ended up staying at the Days Inn in Alpena, MI. For a $79 dollar rate, it was super clean and had a really good continental breakfast. I thought Jacob was going with us when I made the hotel reservations so I booked two rooms – one for Hannah and Jacob and one for me and my Mom. Since I did non-refundable to get the lower rate, I got the king bed all to myself!
I ended up having three mini breakfasts the next morning – first up: coffee, yogurt and a hard boiled egg.
Second breakfast? A small powdered donut when I met up Mom and Hannah 30 minutes after I had gotten breakfast. And then I had a piece of coffee cake at my Aunt’s house.
The weather was perfect – overcast, about 70 degrees and just an awesome breeze. I wished I could have hung out on that deck all day. But then the stormy weather started moving in.
And it got so bad at one point that we actually had to pull off the side of the road – so windy and just waves and waves of rain.
Luckily about two hours into our drive home, the weather got all sunny again. I did finally drive that second day and I was glad I switched with Hannah because coming back into Chicago was totally backed up – I think it took us over two hours to drive 70 miles. Other than that I didn’t mind the drive at all – I watched movies on Netflix!
So those of you who are following along remember how I fired my first contractor I ever hired in my life. I gave him three chances to come over with receipts, etc. and he blew me off every single time. Last night was the third and final attempt to have him come over and I then called him and told him that my gloves were coming off. I am nice to a point but you really don’t like to see me mad. I told him I was going to put his business card on Facebook so that no one else could be cheated by him. In the voicemail message I left for him, I stated “you have no idea what shit storm is coming your way.” I will continue to share that post in the days to and weeks to come – recommending that people share it. I will also notify the Better Business Bureau, Yelp, Angie’s List, and will post his business card to Craigslist, Instagram, Twitter, etc.
In my final comment on my Facebook message I said “I hope you set a better example for your four year old daughter.” Yep, my gloves are officially off and I am ready to beat the shit out him on social media.
Here is his business card:
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On a lighter note, I am off again! I borrowed my office laptop so I hope to continue to blog while I am away. You can always follow along on Instagram – my bizzy kitchen.
Question of the Day: Have you ever been ripped off by a contractor?
Make it a great day!
Yes, social media is a good way to spread the word both good and bad but sadly, it looks like he is a fly by night “contractor” and he could easily change the name of his “company”, number and email address. I hope karma acts quickly.
Oh dear, I’m afraid Mr. Chris is going to regret screwing you over. I’m not even going to tell you what I did with his phone number and email address, but let’s just say he will not soon forget what he did to you. Moral of the story, Chris? Don’t fuck with single moms, douche! 😉
My friend( who lives in my town, but he is originally from Detroit, just came back from Alpena, his 101yr old grandmother died a few months back and they had her memorial service. Going back to read the rest of the post now, wanted to comment on Alpena first.
Ahhhh the trip to northern Michigan – would just love love love to see the entire northern part of MI and the upper peninsula too. It really is beautiful. <3 I've lost touch with an old friend who lives up there. As far as a contractor ripping us off…thank goodness no but we did have a homebuilder rip us off and had to take him to court. UGH. what a pain in the BUTT that was. More power to you girl! He absolutely deserves this. Let him have it and can't wait to see pics of Denver. Colorado is my fave state everrrrrr. Miss it so so much. My heart was left in colorado – (San Francisco too)
Travelling lady! Glad you were able to make the trip to see family, so worth all the miles. Have a great trip with Beef, look forward to hearing about it.
I’ve never been ripped off by a contractor, but I DO have to say your guy REALLY deserves what’s coming to him!
Don’t forget to contact your Attorney General’s Office. They have helped me in the past. Good Luck!