Am I the only one who immediately goes to worse case scenario when someone hasn’t blogged for a long time, with no explanation? I realize not everyone blogs at the same pace or frequency, but when someone hasn’t posted in a long time, who used to, I wonder, what happened?
Case in point: Healthy Mom on the Run. She last posted in August when her husband was taking her away on an impromptu vacation, then nothing. Is she okay? Did they have fun? She’s pregnant, so then I start to think, is the baby okay?
Next up: Minus the Whip Cream. Manda lost 20 pounds in March – she kicked ass! Then nothing. I kinda feel like a stalker because I keep leaving comments asking if she’s okay, but no response. 🙁
Lastly: Sharon of Snipets and Bites. She was a blogger back in 2008 and 2009, in fact she was one of the first regular readers I had that wasn’t family. She was a college student in Canada, used to make the most gorgeous plates of fruit and veggies for her lunches, and talked warmly about when she went home and her Dad made her his signature Asian dishes. Her site just shut down one day. 🙁
So any of you who decide to stop blogging, I understand, but could you just have a farewell post? And those I mentioned are okay, could you let me know so I can stop worrying? 😀
It actually reminded me a time when Hannah was about 4. My friend was between houses with her husband and they were staying at her MIL’s house. She had a pool and invited Hannah and I over for the afternoon. She asked if I needed the address, and I was like “I’ve been there half a dozen times, I know how to get there!” We ended the conversation that she was going to jump in the shower, as it was a 30 minute drive.
Hannah and I get to her MIL’s house and ring the doorbell. Nothing. We knock on the door. Nothing. After 20 minutes, my mind goes to worse case scenario. She’s fallen in the shower, cracked her head open and is bleeding! Hannah and I went to the side gate – but it could only be opened from the inside in. I have this clever idea that I am going to hoist Hannah over the fence! There was a frog lawn ornament – I picked up Hannah and got her over to the other side, only to realize she has about a 2 foot drop and I am thinking of what to do, when I hear my friend behind me say “Biz, what the fuck are you doing?”
Um, turns out I was at the house next door – that look almost identical! Oops! I asked Hannah if she remembered that story, but she didn’t, which is probably a good thing! Um, let’s just say that some of my early parenting skills were questionable!
You knew it was only a matter of time before I made another breakfast pizza. I usually cook it 3/4 of the way at home, then finish it off in our work toaster oven – I must have had it on the wrong temperature because I put the pizza in, went to my desk, opened my email and a couple minutes later I thought I could smell something burning! I saved it in the nick of time – I had the temp on 450 for broil!
My friend and I walked for 50 minutes at lunch – I walked with 2 pound weights. The trees are just starting to turn and it was a gorgeous day – in the low 70’s!
I had leftover broccoli ranch mac n cheese, with a side salad. Except I must have taken my low fat salad dressing home because I couldn’t find it. All that we had was full fat ranch, so I mixed 1 tablespoon ranch with 1 tablespoon cholula hot sauce and it was delicious! A spicy ranch! 😀
I have yet a third version of my Cincinnati Chili – this one is the best one yet and the simplest! It’s just the right heat level for Tony too.
Simple Cincinnati Chili (printer friendly version here)
Makes 6 servings (243 calories, 7.9 fat, 5.5 carbs, 2.1 fiber and 36.4 protein)
Ingredients
1 | clove garlic, minced |
2 | tablespoons tomato paste |
2 | tablespoons chili powder |
1 | tablespoon dried oregano |
1/2 | teaspoon ground cinnamon |
1/2 | teaspoon salt |
1/2 | teaspoon black pepper |
1 | cup chicken broth |
8 | ounce tomato sauce (1 small can) |
1 | tablespoon vinegar |
1 1/2 | pounds lean ground beef |
Directions
- Heat non-stick skillet to medium. Add ground beef and cook until almost completely done.
- Drain fat. Add back to pan, add all remaining ingredients and simmer for 15 minutes.
- Serve over cooked pasta, with cheese, peppers, black beans, whatever!
Here is my Cincinnati Chili – 5 way: 1/2 cup of chili served over 1/2 cup cooked pasta, diced orange pepper, torn baby spinach, 1/2 ounce cheddar cheese and spicy black beans, oh and hot sauce 😀
Stats for Wednesday:
- 1489 calories, 179 carbs, 85 protein, 50 fat, 26 fiber
- 29% of calories from fat
- 50 minute walk with 2 pound weights
- 15 minute walk with dog
BSI! Sorry for the delay in BSI this week, we had a bit of confusion with hosts this week, but it will work to your advantage because you’ll have more time to submit your entries to Errign of Errign’s Adventures who chose Apple Cider! You have until Sunday, October 17 to get your recipes to her and she’ll pick a winner on Monday, October 18. First thing that came to mind for me were apple cider donuts, but I’ll have to think about it! 😀
I want that! I haven’t done an I want that shout out in a while, but as soon as I saw it, I wanted it. Cook and the Dishwashers Southwestern Bean Soup with Cornmeal Dumplings. I want those cornmeal dumplings!
And not too late to vote for Round 3 in Project Food Buzz. Even though I didn’t make it through, I am not sad because Friday I’ll get the call from Foodbuzz telling me that I won a trip to San Francisco for my Pumpkin and Roasted “Popcorn” soup!
My votes?
- Mara – What’s For Dinner?
- Kim – Poor Girl Eats Well
- Mike – Rooftop Gourmet
- Kristin – Iowa Girl Eats
- Natasha – Five Star Foodie
- Asha – Fork, Spoon, Knife
Sorry this was so long – if you have made it down this far – have a great day! 😀
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Hi Biz!!
I am so sorry I didn’t give more explanation. Pregnancy has wreaked havoc on my body. Baby is doing great though. I am thinking with the late nights ahead I will have plenty of time to blog. Miss you lots.
You know just a few weeks ago I went through my Google Reader, cleaning up my subscriptions and I was amazed how many bloggers have stopped updating their sites without any explanation. I agree – a farewell post would sure be nice 🙂
I really appreciate your support in the PFB!!! Thanks!
I do the same thing when bloggers disappear. There is one in particular right now that really puzzles me. Prior to her disappearance, I felt she was right on target, and developing some deep friendships in the blogosphere, but she has disappeared and none of us can reach her. If she is okay, why is she doing this?
I’ve noticed a lot of bloggers have called it quits, but most of them have given notice. It seems they’ve just gotten burned out or need to devote more time to other writng projects or life in general.
I’M THE SAME WAY! My immediate thought is always that they died. There was that one girl who was supposed to do a BSI way, way back and then never chose a winner. She didn’t post forever and ever since then, I kept checking back. Finally I saw that she’s still active on Foodbuzz, so I figured she probably was just embarrassed and abandoned ship.
Then Sweetie Pie stopped! I was actually going to meet up w/ her in DC last Nov. so I know she’s still fine, but still odd for her to not blog, I used to follow it regularly. I think she still reads though b/c I actually got a comment from her a few wks ago.
Then there was some random girl I’d only followed for a little bit. She lived in NYC and posted one day about it snowing and showed pics of her patio w/ snow on it and then never posted again – no word. I don’t even remember her or her blog!
The fruit sticker cracked me up! That’s totally something I would do.
Oh and what type of pasta is under your chili? It looks like it’s some special fancy kind, but I can’t really tell. Maybe I’m just halucinating. hahaha
It is Barilla brand – it is called Spaghetti Rigati – just a thinner version of spaghetti 😀
And that girl who never picked a winner is BSI is why I resurrected it weeks later! FYI. . . I made apple cider marshmallows as the BSI this week – they turned out so good! 😀
Ha! You called them out. Please don’t do that to us if we don’t post for a while. 🙂 Blogging is so time consuming, no? Wish it was easier to post consistently. Thanks for always having a great recipe and a laugh to share!
I freak out when people disappear too.
I work retail and it seems like it happens a lot. One day this guy came in early Sunday morning, helped me put out the sidewalk, straightened the front of the store, and then I was outside signing the baskets he walked by (I thought he was going on break) and we NEVER saw him again. Kinda freaky. The manager at the time came out and asked where Greg was and was shocked how he just walked off.
P.S. now days I try to friend as many as I can on facebook so that I will not lose touch.
That is so weird Jamie!
Biz, I almost fell out of my chair laughing when I read about you hoisting Hannah over the fence. I can picture you doing this! Lol, and getting caught by some one. Gee, girl that is soooo funny. Your pizza looks wonderful. I’ve never had any of my bloggers stop blogging all of a sudden, but if I did I would probably be just as concern as you were. I mean you do get attached to your regular readers and become really good friends with a lot of them. So, yes i would feel the same way. Girl, you are still having issues with the BSI?? I remember when that episode happened to me when I was a host, I was so confused. If it weren’t for Veronica I would of been totally lost! Have a nice evening 🙂
That story about you hoisting Hannah over the fence just made me laugh out loud! Too funny!
The chili looks great…. so simple! Yum!
I remember Sharon, too! She used to always have those wonderful tofu sandwiches!
I am in love with your breakfast pizza 🙂
I do the same thing with jumping to frightening conclusions. Whenever my husband is more than 30 minutes later than normal I freak out wondering if he was in a car crash…and oh my goodness how will I manage without him..and and and. I also wonder about those bloggers who disappear too.
I always worry about those bloggers too and hope they’re ok. I’d like to think that even if I dropped off the face of the blogworld, I’d still respond to emails inquiring about me.
Funny, Biz. Mom on the Run posted yesterday–she and the baby are fine. http://healthymomontherun.com/2010/10/
I too get really worried about people who drop out. Saying goodbye would be a good thing.
Love the salad. that’s what I want right now!
T
Thanks for letting me know!!
I LOVE that you put your chili on noodles – fabulous! Also, I know what you mean about blogs that shut down. I worry, too! And agree – just post a farewell message, ladies! 🙂
Woo hoo about the Foodbuzz thing – are you going to go?
I get so busy with school so my posting gets crazy! 🙂
Oops, can’t read – thought you said you GOT the call saying you were going 🙂 Well, I hope you go!
I hope you get a response from those bloggers. That would worry me too. One of the blogs I have been reading has not posted in awhile too so I went back and check this week actually to find that she did write a farewell post and I missed. All this time I was wondering what happen.
Okay I really really really need to try a breakfast pizza. Yours always looks so darn good. And that chili….look how easy that recipe looks :0
You’re not the only one. I wonder about some bloggers, too, especially if they were really good about posting regularly then *poof* into the ether.
Cincinnati chili! I often forget just how much I love it. Thanks for the reminder.
Love the story about the wrong house.
Also, I do feel the same as you about people who disappear…I wonder, think and worry about them. The idea of a farewell post is great. There are people I still wonder about who’ve been gone almost a year. I love that if I go more that 3 days without posting, A few bloggers start riding my ass!
oh, I know what you mean about worrying about bloggers. I’ve been so worried about Friend of the Bear. She’s not answered my emails and I just have the worse feeling. Some of the bloggers I follow have become such a part of my morning and evenings that well, they become like friends.
Your food looks absolutely yummy. You’re such an awesome cook. Wanna be like you when I grow up… Oh, I’m already grown… well, you know what I mean.
BTW–breakfast pizza looks great. Gonna have to try that for my breakfast soon.
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I agree with the disappearing, although I might be a hypocrite for saying so. I’ve gone for long periods of time where I didn’t blog. I’ve never had a blogging schedule, but when I’m not inspired to share/write/create, I don’t post. No explanation. I get emails and Facebook messages asking if I’m okay from a few bloggers that I’m particularly connected to, and I always respond.
I am going to have to try this chili – my boyfriend LOVES chili but hates spicy. I’m always adding hot everything to my food after I dish out our plates!
I’m just like you. I worry for them, not knowing if they’re ok or not. It’s like losing a friend that you’ve gotten to know, which is sad too. It certainly doesn’t help the “grieving?” process that we keep checking their blog daily, hoping that they’ll write something, anything.
As for me, Biz, I’ve been totally overwhelmed with life lately and dealing with some health issues. Have not been visiting blogs though I want to, and have not been posting as much. Have thought about quitting blogging, but I love it so. Right now, I’m just plain exhausted. (Some of it is thyroid issues, some is PAD, some is post-polio syndrome, etc.)
Hang in there Judy! 😀
You are NOT the only one, I am the same way. A few blogs I follow stopped and I’m sure it’s becasue they gave up and gained a bunch of weight back 🙁 I also felt like a stalker lol, but I want them to know it’s ok, and to come back and try again!
Love the pics, and the food looks GREAT as always! 🙂
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You had me cracking up with the image of you hoisting poor 4 year old Hannah over a random person’s fenced yard!
Biz, you are too sweet for worrying! It is definitely sad when bloggers drop off without a trace. I still think about some that I used to read and wonder what they’re up to.
Mmmm….chili….
Just goes to show how tight the blogging community really is. When a blogger I follow doesn’t post, I wonder just as I would with any IRL friend. And don’t you ever leave me, Biz 😛
Your chili is missing ONION 🙂 LOL
Loved the story about Hannah, I have a few about Tarryn too and thank goodness they don’t remember everything from there young days with crazy mom 🙂
Ha – I’ll leave the onion eating to Hannah!
What a lovely idea. When I’ve found a UK test-tube sulepipr I’m going to try too. I’d include thyme in my top ten and the smoked sea-salt I discovered on a trip to the sea life centre on Anglesey a few years ago.
I slowed down and almost stopped blogging in April because I had become so ill and boy-o my tadpoles [friends/readers] let me know it – they were concerned [rightly so – I ended up in the hospital for 10 days. THAT was interesting] so I can see how you would worry. I do think your first bloggy friend is probably busy with being pregnant etc [she is probably wiped out] so I wouldn’t worry too much.
I do the same thing that you do – leave copious amounts of comments until I hear something. I am stalker-y like that too. hee
Love the chili recipe – but I have to ask what kind of pasta is that? It doesn’t look like simple spaghetti. It looks delicious and I think I want to try it.
Simple spaghetti – except its a bit thinner, not quite angel hair, but I like it because it cooks in six minutes. 😀
I just looked its called Spaghetti Rigati and its Barilla brand 😀
There are a couple bloggers I am worried about. One went on vacation at the end of August and just never returned to her blog. I have emailed her and posted on her Facebook page and heard nothing.
Not just you. I remember SHannon…always wondered what happened. Kind of freaky she just stopped, but then her post did start getting sparse towards the end.
I hope you win a trip to the festival so that I can finally meet you! 😀
I just dusted off my suitcase so I am thinking good vibes! Would love to meet you too! 😀
I’m horrible and think the worst too! I think it’s part of being a lady!
I do wonder about bloggers who just stop like that…I miss Manda, too. There are several who reached their goal weight and stopped blogging, and I’d wish they would come back and check in – let us know how they are managing maintenance.
Your chili picture looks like a work of art. You could not only have a job as a world-class cook, but also as a food stager!
Thanks Shelley – unfortunately, foodgawker said that picture was bad because of: poor lighting/composition 🙁
I have a few bloggers that have disappeared too. 🙁 It makes me sad. Some of them closed their blog entirely so I can not leave messages. I feel like I lost a friend….I enjoy getting to know people through their blogs/recipes/ weigh ins/ and routines. *sigh* I guess there is not much we can do.
I go worst case scenario too! The other night we couldn’t find one of our cats in our small 1 bedroom apt and I started freaking out. I imagined that he had gotten out that morning when I sent the laundry out and that he probably wandered out of our building and was roaming Manhattan alone and we would never see him again. And then 2 seconds later he appeared, meowing for food.
Awww – you’re so cute worrying about everyone. I promise not to drop off the face of the earth without letting you know 🙂
LOL Biz – I love the Hannah story!! I can just picture it all in my head…kinda sounds like something I would do. 😉
Yes, that has happened with a lot of blogs I’ve read. 🙁 Thankfully most of them have posted a good-bye post, but some just dropped off the face of the earth. It is sad! I’m a worrier by nature, and I just always want to make sure they are okay.
I used to read Snippets and Bites and always wondered what happened…
The Hannah story is funny. I’ve done questionable things myself. Unfortunately, the teenager remembers most of them… 🙂
It’s weird that you just mentioned this, because I was going through my google reader and noticed a blog that I read everyday hadn’t updated since July. She had a husband deploying and was pregnant so I also started worrying.
And yum…Cincinnati Chili is one of my faves!!
When I see a blogger stop that I read regularly, I usually try to go after them via email. Only one time did I not get an answer back! But ITA, they should put up a farewell post!
Funny that you had chili because I’ve got YOUR Buffalo Chicken Chili for lunch today 🙂
Hooray for buffalo chicken chili! 😀
i dont like seeing people just stop blogging for no reason either! sometimes it happens to me though.. and then i wonder if people actually miss me blogging! lol good thing i am not a more popular blogging otherwise id be harrassed.. people watching the news wondering if i were ok or not.. hehehe
im paranoid too about if something happened to people when i am supposed to see them. i am very timely and in constant communication so when others arent, im like WTF!!!!! LOL i love that story with hannah.. im SURE i have blocked out doing something similar with Peanut.. hehehehe
Funny post about Hannah, I don’t remember that story, but can totally picture you doing that! Ha!
Fortunately I’ve never had that experience, of someone just stopping blogging with no explanation. Well, there is a certain food blog that the person only puts a recipe up like four times a year but it’s always been that way so it’s never caused me concern. If someone just stopped like that, I too would jump to conclusions! I usually think of the worst thing that could have happened, just like you. If Dennis isn’t home when he said he would be, I always imagine him in a car accident. Thank God he’s so in touch with me–if he was one of those guys who went off on his own without telling me where he’d be, I’d be completely nuts. Or maybe I already am. 🙂