Friday night, just after we sat down to dinner, Hannah’s fiancés phone rings and it’s his brother. All I hear Jacob saying is “What?!” I couple minutes he hung up and said “My niece died.” Jacob has two nieces one is two and the other is 4 months old – the 4 month old died in her crib of unknown causes. They were both at our house just a week and a half ago when Hannah and Jacob were babysitting. She was beautiful!
The kids immediately left and I ate my dinner in silence. Then the tears came. It was as if I had skinned my knee and there was a scab and I had a band-aid over it to protect it, and I ripped the band-aid off and took the scab with it. Tomorrow will be 8 weeks that Tony passed away. Four weeks since my cousin Pam died, and now Leila. I sent that last picture to Jacob’s Mom, and it’s now her Facebook page picture. The only good news to come out of this is that they were able to donate her corneas to another baby who needed them. I like to think that Leila was born for that purpose, and that the baby who got them is now going to cure breast cancer. That’s the only way I can wrap my head around her dying so young.
So I think I told you that I was catering a party for my boss – a “gourmet” dinner party for 10. I had my time line all set to go, including stuff that I wanted to get done on Friday night. Well, that didn’t happen. I drank too much wine, cried, and waiting for the kids to get back home – I don’t think I went to bed before 2 a.m. But I got up on Saturday and got everything done. You can click on my Pinterest page for all the recipes I made. My menu was fairly simple:
It was just really . . . time consuming. I mean I made everything from scratch – including those menus above. I have never cooked for a group of people like that before, and in a strange kitchen I was a tiny bit nervous, but what I was most nervous about was making sure the meat was cooked perfectly, because that was really the star of the whole menu. If you haven’t tried a sirloin tip roast, you are missing out. Super flavorful and extremely affordable – I was able to buy two roasts for $4.00 a pound! I bought just under ten pounds of meat, and there were only two slices left at the end of the night!
My bosses kitchen is amazeballs, and about 10x the size of mine at home. She has a Thermador oven – and it was awesome to cook on. I got to their house at 5:30 to finish prepping and get the meat going before guests started to arrive around 7.
I didn’t take too many pictures when I was plating because obviously I wanted everything hot – the soup was roasted butternut and apple and I did a chipotle creama on top just to balance the sweetness of the soup.
I made a salad with Fuji apples, dried cranberries, feta cheese and butter toffee peanuts with an apple cider dressing – so good!
I did hasselback potatoes with Cabot’s White Oak Cheddar cheese – you need to find that cheese, so good! I fully cooked them at home, and then finished them off under the broiler after this pic was taken.
I did a mushroom jus for the top of the meat – just baby bella mushrooms that I sautéed in butter and then added beef stock and Italian seasonings, salt and pepper.
I cooked the roasts to 125 and then they sat for a good 25 minutes before I had to serve the entrée. That was the only time I got nervous the whole night, and after I made that first cut, I knew I was golden – perfect medium rare!
My boss asked me to cut the slices thick (about 3/4 of an inch) and women got one slice, and men got two slices to start. Well, two slices was probably close to a pound of meat! My bosses husband brought his plate into the kitchen and said “I need to throw up.” I looked up panicked and he said “I ate all that meat on my plate and everything else – I am so full!” Whew!
Last, but not least – dessert. I wasn’t happy about my pecan pie – it was really gooey in the middle, but I know the taste was there. And that’s bread pudding with a whiskey glaze over the top.
And I made homemade chocolate pudding:
I thought the evening was very well paced – when they were eating one course, I moved onto making the next one, my boss cleared the plates and served the food. I kept the kitchen clean and when desserts were plated, my work was done. I poked my head into the dining room to say goodbye, and they all applauded and my boss hugged me – I think it was a success!
So I was kind of curious if this is something I’d like to do more of, and well, I am on the fence. If it was my only job, I would love it. But between planning the menu, grocery shopping, prepping the food, cooking the food and being at the event for five hours – it’s a lot of work! And guess how much I spent on all the food for the menu above? $171. Yep, I catered a dinner party spending just that amount of money, which is $17.10 per person for apps, soup, salad, entrée, two sides and three desserts. Not too shabby!
Alright, I have to get my food and gym bag ready for the day. I stayed up watching Shameless last night – we missed the first episode, so we had to watch that one first – such an amazing show!
And I’ll leave you with a couple pictures of the dogs that Hannah took – they are really growing on me, especially Rummy, the tiny dog.
Have a great day – make it a good one! Hugs!
So sadden to hear about your cousin and then Laila. I had no idea, but know we are saying our prayers for them, and of course Tony. I simply don’t now how you do it Biz, but you are an inspiration to us all. Thank you sweet Biz.
You dinner looks FABU! I can’t believe you can shop like that where you live. It would be impossible here to find that kind of roast for $4.00/lb let alone make the whole meal for $17 per person. We drive an hour just to find the cheapest food we can and we could never serve such a gorgeous meal for that. I am duly impressed and I wish there were more pools where you lived, we’d move. gggle The allure to where you live IS YOU, of course, but cheap food – find me some pools girlie. hee
Don’t forget that your time and mad skillz are worth something [a lot in my opinion, and I don’t think any of us would disagree] I just hope that your boss compensated you fairly. Hugs and love sweetheart.
Hey Janine! I have a package I dropped in the mail to you this morning, you should get it by Thursday or Friday. 😀 Yes, I was compensated very well – $25/hour for my time! Can’t beat that with a stick! I was just happy how smooth everything went.
I am a frugal food shopper Skip, you know that! I follow the sales and that sirloin tip roast goes on sale about every 3 weeks at a grocery store near my house. Hugs right back!
I cannot believe that you’ve had to experience so much loss at once–I feel like a broken record but I’m seriously sending every good thought to you.
Meanwhile, brava brava on such a successful catering mission!
I think Joyce said it all so nicely. I’m just happy you have Hannah and Jacob there with you. The two cute little dogs too.
Oh and the doggies ….. awwwwwwwwwwww too cute!
What a sad sad news about Jacob’s niece.
Biz, you can cater a dinner party at my house any time, girl you are born for this. It all looks so delicious. I dream for you that you can make this your fulltime job one day.
I think I’ve said this before but this post requires it again. You should start a series or a TV show or something about stretching your dollar. Amazing.
And most importantly, I am so very sorry about Leila. There are no words. 🙁
So sorry to hear about this. Losing a baby to SIDS must be the ultimate worst. That family will need a lot of love and time to heal. I am glad you are there for them. Now on the other hand. I’ve done a fair amount of catering like you did. Your dinner looked fabulous. It is hard work. If you love it, than stick with it. Word of mouth works.
Oh, I forgot to add that those puppies look adorable.Totally warmed my heart.
I’m so sorry about the loss of Jacob’s precious little niece. What a shock! My prayers and thoughts go out to you guys. That food looks absolutely drool worthy! I wish I could sample some of your cooking.
So sorry about the loss of that beautiful child. How heartbreaking-I can’t imagine. Many prayers for all of you.
Oh my goodness…so much sadness in your life right now. God, I tell you, if I lived in the Chicago area, I would be there to pick you up for a night of incredible drunkeness. lol HUGS!! Why is it that ppl that barely cook get all the good kitchens like that??? haha That meal looks incredible from start to finish!!!!!
Oh my goodness! I am so very sorry to hear about Jacob’s little niece!! Hugs and prayers to all of you!
Awesome job on the catering!! I would be way too nervous to ever do anything like that! Lol
Geez, Biz. I am so, so terribly sorry to hear. Thinking of you…
You’ve had a lot of loss and that is very, very hard. I can’t even begin to imagine how that family feels it’s just so tragic 🙁
Most people who do that sort of catering have at least one helper. It’s quite hard work… how do I know? Because my mother catered private dinner parties for years and I was often her helper. We were usually so worn out by the end of a party we didn’t even care to eat anything ourselves!
I am SO SORRY to hear about Leila. However, I am glad your party went well. I think you could totally make a side business out of catering, and then eventually go full time.
oh, no so sorry about sweet Leila. I can’t even imagine how hard that must be for her parents and all of the family!
I think you could definitely go into full time catering – you are phenomenal!!!
Well, bad things happen in 3’s so you’re done now for a good long while.
I’m so sorry, that baby is precious.
I’ve catered a few meals for people when I lived in Ontario and its a lot of work. I know exactly what you dealt with. Every time I did it, I also had a sous chef so that helped me too.
So much loss for you lately! I’m so sorry – the baby was adorable and I can’t imagine what her parents are going through right now. 🙁
OMG! I am SOOOOO sorry for the loss of Jacob’s beautiful niece. Wow…
Oh Biz, that poor baby. I am so sorry for your loss and the family’s loss. As a mama of two little ones, I just cannot imagine losing one of my babies, especially a 4 month old.
Sorry to hear of another loss In your family. Your dinner looked amazing! I am sure you did a great job. Your food always looks so good.
Too much sadness lately. I’m so very sorry. That is heartbreaking.
Biz! That menu looks fabulous! I’ve dabbled in thinking about catering dinner parties too…and now I’m wanting to look into it more!
Oh Biz, so sorry to hear about Jacob’s niece. Very, very sad.
Your dinner party looks amazing, you did a great job on the food and the budget. Sure does sound time consuming, though I imagine it gets easier as you do it more. Great job.
That meal looks totally amazing! Every single entree! Wish you lived closer. 😉 So sorry to read about that little baby passing. 🙁 I still worry about that all the time and my son is almost 15 months! Life certainly is mysterious.
I’m so sorry for you and your family suffering another loss. Such a precious baby and now she’s gone for no reason.
Your catering job looked amazing! You did awesome! It’s good that you’re able to dabble in it and see if you would actually like doing it as your own part-time job. Maybe it’s just something for you to do occasionally for people at work and any ‘word-of-mouth’ work that comes from that. Then you could enjoy each event for what it is, but not feel like it’s just another job that you’re obligated to do.
Those dogs are adorable – we’re dog-sitting right now and it always makes me want my own, but then I’m just not sure. Have a great day- Lynne.
You are an amazing person with handling the heartbreaking news of that precious bundle, and then pulling off a “WINNER DINNER” for all those people with such grace. I am amazed at the price you were able to do it for! You have a gift of cooking. planning menus and a gift for loving, enjoying and helping people. I just hope you can do what you love for the rest of your life! You so deserve it Girl! There are lots of joys ahead of you and zillions of fantastic memories yet to be made. Life is short….squeeze all the joy from it you can each day. I have well learned the lesson that if “life hands you lemons, make some darn good lemonade with them.” Me thinks that you are an expert in THAT already!
I had to laugh at the comment made as that guy brought his plate into the kitchen. Not the best comment to receive after making all that delicious food! lol. I would LOVE to do that for a living. I’ve thought for a long time that I would love catering but just have no idea how to start or even what to do. Maybe someday…
So sad about Jacob’s niece. My heart goes out to their family.
Oh my word….three unquantifiable losses in such a short period of time…no more for the next 50 years. My Mom always told me losses like this come in threes. I don’t know about that but if there’s a shred of truth to it I wish no more losses for you and your family. So very sorry. As for your incredible dinner party catering — I have to ask because I honestly don’t know but did you go to/graduate from a chef’s school or cooking school of some kind?! WOW! I have to tell you I think I gained 5 pounds just from the descriptions and pics. Especially the bread pudding with whiskey glaze! YOWZA woman. That is my kryptonite. Amazing accomplishment all of that and on so little sleep. You are Wonder Woman!
I’m so sad about that baby. Praying for that family, I can’t even imagine.
Great job catering Biz!! I knew you would rock it – no doubt. Looks absolutely divine.
Oh my, so much loss for you and your family. I am glad that her corneas are going to help out another child.
Awesome job catering that dinner party! You came in cheaper than it would cost for someone to go out to eat and provided wonderful food. I could see this being a little side job for you.
Take care of yourself! 🙂
I’m so sorry about Leila. 🙁 How much can a girl take? HUGS and love to you.
How sad to lose that precious baby! So hard to understand.
Your food looks fabulous. Catering is hard work but very rewarding.
Best,
Bonnie